We like most of the people, we generally have a bad and intense relationship with failure. We often see it as an ending, as proof that our plan did not succeed or our ideas were not good enough. But the truth is, failure happens to everyone. If we haven’t failed yet, chances are high that we aren’t trying very hard.
Failure is the hammer that tempers the sword of success.
The first thing that might come to our mind when we are told to accept failures is the idea of accepting defeat. Accepting failure is not the same as accepting defeat. There is a lot of difference between trying and failing and accepting defeat. This is a very important difference one needs to understand to be able to learn how to handle the innumerable failures one encounters on the path of life.
Life is not a bed of roses. For every success you will experience, there will be several failures. The very process of life is a play of success and failure. There is no meaning to life if you only keep succeeding. The idea of success and failure only applies to the particular task you are trying to accomplish.
Success or failure cannot define you You have to be something more than just the simple definitions of success and failures. You should create a sense of self that is independent of your successes and failures.
Even right now, while you are reading this there would be someone fighting each moment and at the same time someone feeling like a complete failure due to the marks or any other performance. The only thing that separates people who succeed from those who do not is a proper understanding of the power of failure. Success requires that we learn from mistakes, mis steps and also with misunderstanding along the way rather than falling into despair and giving up.
A bad marksheet, a game lost on a bad day, or any failure for that matter, does not imply that a person is destined to be a failure for the rest of his life. History has taught us that there are many who failed at something important and went onto to becoming spectacular successes in their later lives.
Success Lies in Seeing Failure as a Tool
As all the great people have something in common, so to do the true “failures” also: their inability to use failure as a part of life. When we feel sinking, desperate, frustrated sensation known as failure and we take it to heart, we diminish our selves. We give our power to away to an external life concern. Success is about learning, keep motivated own self and how to recognize why we are facing failed, and how we are going to compensate it otherwise have to create a alternative for the situation.
Failure Builds Character
Failure keeps the ego in check. Remaining down to earth and honest is a challenge in today’s world. If we look at the event leading up to any significant victory, we will often discover failure as the biggest motivator. Those experiencing constant success may even resort to dishonesty if it means not losing what they have. They become slaves to success and before realizing it, they’ll do anything to stay on top, sometimes things that they would never imagined. Partnerships and friendships get ruined.
Success is not a good teacher, Failure makes you humble.
Celebrate Small Success
Success can also come in with small chunks and events. These all are part of our winning strategy which bring happiness in our life. From these achievement can be transformed our life in a very true way. On the other hand, waiting while for something to happen is not effective when we can take action now.
“Success is most often achieved by those who know that failure is inevitable”
So finally we came to conclusion that FAILURE is not a last destination of our life. Its just a step to getting a success or being a successful person in life. But we have to do hard work, have to analyse why we getting fail in this platform. Remain positively motivated and do smart hard work in interested area. Its the only key to getting success.